Thursday, August 23, 2007

Post Fundraiser Walk Update

The first question everyone asks after a fundraiser is "How much money did you-we make?".
I find this a bit offensive purely because the money is not the only goal in having these events. The funds are very important, don't get me wrong, and we could not have the high level of research and care we have with out public sponsors and donors, yet the most important part of these events is the show of support from friends, family and the community. The second is educating and bringing awareness to this devastating disease. "If the disease does not kill you the side long term effects and medications will". This is one of the messages we want to get out when it comes to research fund drives. I want people to understand that lupus is a life long disease that continues to affect the patient even after years of remission. The side effects from current treatments leave some of us with out bones, swollen, half crazy, nauseous, tired, weak, poor, with out much social or professional life, stomach problems, heart issues, high blood pressure, unable to bear children, sometimes with cancer or other secondary illnesses and open to all kinds of infections. The toll taken on the kidneys, liver, heart and other major organs is devastating as well. We are talking about toxic drugs and a disease that attacks it's own tissue. There is no real end in sight for severe lupus patients. I want people to walk away from these events knowing it is their duty to help find better treatments and a cure because someone you know does or will have lupus and it could be your daughter, wife, sister, brother or son. The other important goal is for the public to see we are also strong, willful and courageous people with a great attitude under the worst of circumstances and we are VITAL SURVIVORS !!! There is a message of hope in all this as well and this group shines where this is concerned. The support and positive attitudes are strong and rise above the ashes of the disease. We are not just patients or sick people we are fighters and yet have accepted our fate and we handle it with grace. We do this in hopes of helping someone who is newly diagnosed and to survive. We do it for our loved ones and for our own sanity. In the end we are blessed to have had the experiences as a teacher of strength, fortitude and courage. We do not have our hands out for funds for our own selfish needs because we have already travelled this path. We do this for future generations. So wake up and smell the roses and get involved. Don't forget to tell that person whom you know has lupus how inspirational and strong they are. This is most healing !!!

YES we raised money and we had @300 people show up even in the pouring rain. I give thanks for everyone who made the effort on a Sunday morning to show your support and for those who just came to find out more and help. The local football team at Trenton High helps every year, the community of Woodhaven and Trenton really support this event and that is what I love !!!
AND we still need funds. If you can even spare $10.00 per month ( three Starbucks) it would help tremendously.

I give thanks to all my loved ones who sent money and who came to the walk !!!!! I love you guys...Photos soon to follow !!!